Strong but Fragile…

imageIt happened again. I broke down and cried. And once again, it took me by surprise. As I stood in line waiting my turn, I saw masses of people-all kinds of folks- from this country and from foreign lands waiting their turn too. Like the tangled historic roots among cobblestones, bricks, asphalt and concrete-their faces were solemn even anxious as they quietly waited, I’m sure mine was too. I read again the history of it. The difficulties, the immense courage of men in another day and time, the decision made knowing what it would cost them.image

I saw so many other landmarks, so much more history, walked in the old cobbled paths read about for a lifetime. I didn’t break down at Betsy’s House or in Ben’s Business, I didn’t even break down as the tour guide pointed out- place after place where history was being made so many years ago. I didn’t break down at Christ’s Church, though I was deeply moved.

Dare I say it? I love this country. I love the red, blue and white star spangled flag and even though it is off-key I do love to sing the national anthem. I still put my hand over my heart when I pledge the flag. Every. Single. Time. I get exasperated with my country, the kind of exasperation I feel when I find a new wrinkle or another gray hair. Not the kind of exasperation that would ever make me want to give up on her, my roots are among those cobblestones, bricks and concrete too.image

This country is Strong and Freedom has always been Fragile. What started as a Dream, a Pursuit and a Bill of a Dozen Right Ideals were formed in the Fiery Furnace, a Foundry filled with the lives and fortunes of a few good men. On a heavy wooden beam their hopes were mounted and hoisted up with the strong belief that there was a better way to form a more perfect union. No one noticed it was imperfect, that a hairline crack had formed. After loudly proclaiming freedom-there was always the possibility that it could break, the ringing could be silenced and the whole idea would become a shining part of world history. image

A dozen years ago, I saw it. I broke down and cried. It took me by surprise then and it took me by surprise again last week. I saw masses of people yearning to be near her, I saw my own family pause by the Liberty Bell- The Liberty Bell spoke to me gently in passing and then I cried.  She stands silent, she stands in full view of Constitution Hall- a Strong Fragile Lady aging gracefully, unruffled and calm.. Even her tiresome quarreling children became quiet and reverent, desperately trying to be more perfect, more united in her presence. Beneath the hem of her garment, created equal with certain inalienable rights-Liberty’s children share her Love of Freedom.  This Southern Belle knows a true Lady when she sees one. Lady Liberty, I salute you, Darlin’.

May God’s generous Grace, His unmatched Mercy and His abiding Love continue to shine His Glorious Light upon you.image

Our Holiday Vacation was an inspiring trip to Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. The City of Brotherly Love and the Birthplace of Freedom-where the Lovely Ladies are Strong, the Goodlookin’ Men are Brave and the Children of Liberty strive to be Far Above Average.*

Love y’all, Camellia

*quote- is a play on Garrison Keiller’s statement about the fictional Lake Woebegone – ‘Where the women are strong, the men are goodlooking and the children are all above average.’

All photographs are mine- from Old City, Betsy Ross House, Benjamin Franklin’s Print Shop, Elsfeth Alley, Constitution Hall and of course- Liberty Bell Center

Caramel Corn and a Movie…

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Now that Christmas is over, it’s time to snuggle in and have some down time. Most of us love to eat popcorn and watch a Movie at Home…you can elevate that experience with just a bit of sugar and butter to something truly delightful… with Camellia’s Caramel Popcorn

Preheat the oven to 250º – yes a low temperature! You will need a very large bowl and three metal 9×13 baking pans, I line mine with parchment paper for easy cleanup.

  • 16-18 cups of freshly popped or 2 large bags of microwave butter flavored popcorn (measure this out, you might need to pop more) If you like nuts add 2 cups of dry roasted nuts, I prefer it without.
  • Divide the popcorn evenly between two of the pans and set aside.
  • In a medium sized saucepan, combine ¾cup of butter , ¾cup of dark corn syrup, 1 ½ cups of granulated sugar and 2 teaspoons of good vanilla extract.-
  • Bring to a boil over medium heat until the mixture reaches 260º on a candy thermometer.
  • Pour one pan of popcorn in a large bowl and pour half of the hot sugar mixture over that- give a quick stir and pour onto one of the 9×13 pans, then repeat in the same bowl the same procedure with the other pan.
  •  With racks evenly spaced in the preheated oven- run two pans in the oven. Keep the empty third 9×13 pan ready.
  • Bake for ½ hour, halfway through the baking time, dump one pan of caramel corn in over onto another the empty 9×13 pan, repeat with the over pan onto the pan you just emptied.
  • Switch pans from original position- so the bottom pan doesn’t scorch. Bake for another ½ hour.
  • Pull pans out of the oven and allow to cool.

Break apart and enjoy! This may seem like a difficult recipe but believe me, it is almost foolproof! img_1848

As for movies I will be watching-my all time favorite fun and romantic Holiday Movies are:

  1. ‘The Holiday’ with Cameron Diaz
  2. ‘My Best Friend’s Wedding’ with Southern girl, Julia Roberts
  3. ‘Sweet Home Alabama’ with another sweet southern girl, Reese Witherspoon-
  4. And finally, Sandra Bullock’s award winning ‘The Blind Side’ based on a true story. Sandra Bullock has family right here in Alabama!

I hope whatever movie you choose- you will relax and enjoy the holidays! Let me know how you like my Caramel Corn…

Love y’all, Camellia

*photographs are mine

 

Christmas…

‘Christmas waves a magic wand over this world, and behold, everything is softer and more beautiful.’                        Norman Vincent Peale

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‘For unto you is born a Savior…a Baby wrapped in swaddling clothes…Glory to God in the Highest, and on Earth- Peace Goodwill toward Men…’ from Luke 2:11-14

Merry Christmas from Camellia’s Cottage!

Love y’all, Camellia

*The beautiful Alabama Winter photograph was taken by Jeremy Miniard- jeremy.miniard.fineartamerica.com

The Stockings…

We have a family tradition dating back to when our daughters were teenagers. Every one of us would purchase five small gifts- of any type to be placed in the rest of the family’s Stockings. Some of the gifts are very nice, some are cheap and funny, even hilarious! Some are useful, Some are not. The mixture has delighted us for years now- in fact, even if we are going on a trip- we take our Christmas Stockings with us and have the exchange. When young folks outgrow Santa’s toys- it is fun to make a little Christmas joy! Stockings seem a good way to surprise and delight every one.  As my gift to you on this wonderful Christmas Eve…a vintage photograph from our private collection! Entitled:

‘The Stockings were Hung by the Chimney with Care’image

I hope Santa brings you everything you ever wished for and more!

Love y’all, Camellia

*Thank you dear friend for sharing this adorable photograph, we love you! Photograph should not be used without permission.

Christmas Fun…

jeremy-nutcracker-2By far, one of my favorite Christmas stories was told to me by an elderly man- straight, slim and tall- he was a serious businessman, farmer and community leader. He liked the old ways; when I met him, decades ago, he told me this story…He confided he still wore a nightcap and nightshirt! Then he bragged a little on his wife, told me she could really squeeze a dollar, which was a high compliment coming from him! The old gentleman cleared his throat and said that one day his wife came home with an entire bolt of Red Flannel she had gotten on sale. He asked her what she planned to do with all of that Red Flannel, she said-

  • Well for one thing, I’m making you a new nightshirt and nightcap!’ 
  • With a twinkle in his eye, as his tall slim body leaned close toward mine… the old man whispered, ‘I told her I couldn’t let her sew me a nightshirt and cap out of that Red Flannel because if I died during the night, and the kids saw me being taken out on a stretcher, why…they might think Santa Claus had died.’
  • He had a great time laughing at his own story and so did I.grandaddy-wyatt

To this day I wonder if he was telling me the truth or a tall tale- I’ve been assured on good authority, that the old gentleman was always as good as his word! So, presuming everyone had a good Christmas story to tell…I conducted an informal Christmas poll. Most folks either don’t remember going to see Santa Claus or they recall almost nothing of importance about it-

  • One said ‘I just know I wanted to make sure my list got turned in’– which was the most common response from men.
  • Women really didn’t remember anything remarkable …One friend called her brother who promptly said – ‘Oh yes, we walked over to Western Auto and saw Santa’
  • Another said ‘Well, most of the churches had someone dress up’
  • Or like me- ‘We went to Birmingham’.
  • Another said, ‘I just know when I was a kid, I told him what I wanted. But there was one Christmas when I was in high school. My girlfriend and I thought it would be fun to have our picture taken with Santa Claus’.

Now after decade or more of marriage-they still have that keychain picture which apparently their two children think is funny- and I do too…

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Some had photographs-  A fire truck and a skinny Santa or Mall Santas with mixed reactions from the children- some liked Santa, some had to be cajoled or tricked into seeing Santa, some just wanted down! Take this photograph, there were supposed to be five children in the photograph…one refused. image

Some said they didn’t like Santa and still don’t. Adults and children do love holiday activities- decorating gingerbread houses, ice skating, decking out playhouses, reading or telling stories and more! And we adults, still love taking photographs of children by the family tree!

I love all the holiday photographs that family and friends have shared from now to way back when… With all of the hustle and bustle- A good reminder- based on the poll I took, children aren’t affected too much by one thing or another. Some folks are making a life time of memories.  And some, who are no longer with us are greatly missed! Here’s wishing you lots of wonderful memories no matter where you are!

Love y’all, Camellia

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Family photographs are from my private collection, please do not use without permission. The fantastic Nutcracker photographs are Jeremy Miniard’s- go to jeremy.miniard.fineartamerica.com to find more of his fantastic work!